5 Easy Steps To Make Your Man Love You More!

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ver found yourself in situations where you wished he loved you more? Most ladies I know fall into this quagmire more often than not. Can they be chastised for wanting more? Isn’t it within their right to demand for more love and intimacy from their partners? 

Truth is, what most ladies do not know is how easy it really is to get him to come to their point of view. Actually getting your man to step up his love gear for you is an art that can easily be mastered with the right approach and a willingness to adapt and evolve romantically and psychologically. It’s all in the game of seduction. Learning to play it right, therefore, is key to winning his heart more and more.

In this article, I present you with these 5 easy steps to make your man fall in love with you more and more. 

1.      Improve yourself. Stagnation is way out of the equation Ladies. If you want your man to love you more, learn more. Acquire new skills and abilities. Even if its new bed-skills, it’s all skills nonetheless. Importantly, it must be something he does not know about you or hasn’t seen about you already. It could even be chess skills or the game of draught or even ability to read thoughts from his facial expressions. The trick is, give him the impression what he has seen so far of you is only a tip of the iceberg. Soon, you’ll have him drooling over every other surprise you have to offer.

 

Couple sharing love in bed

2.      If he loves football, you love tennis or boxing or motor racing (even cricket). So often you decide to join your man in the sports he loves only just to please him. Truth is, it doesn’t make you any more attractive to him. Rather, it makes you appear like the only identity you have is fed off his shadow. That is not a very strong potion of attraction, is it? Instead, find a sport you love and support it. Say basketball or tennis for instance. There are major grand slams in tennis every year – from the Australian Open in Melbourne to Wimbledon in England to Roland Garros in the French Capital, Paris, and finally Flushing Meadow  in the US (not excluding other grand slams in Japan, China, etc.); plus the ATP tours. The point is why he has his Champions League and Premier League or Primera Liga to cheer about and the Ronaldos and the Messis of this world to cheer on, you too can have your Serena Williams or Maria Sharapova or even Rafael Nadal to cheer as well. You will not only be more sincere, you’d also exhibit your independence – which is a very attractive trait.

 

Serena Williams - Tennis Superstar

3.      Flirt with him but don’t give too much away. Be a constant tease. Heat up the passion without necessarily burning too much. Lead him on a journey and then throw in a puzzle in the mix every now and then. Your man may already love you, but don’t think for one micro second that those damsels out there aren’t hitting on him at every turn. And if your man is tall, handsome and rich, then multiply the hits by 10. Trust me on this. And it even gets worse if you’re married to him, as desperate chics out there know (and this is so true) that the married ones are the best game for them. This is because married men are more wont to keep extra-relational affairs secret (for fear of been caught by their wives or publicly accused of adultery) than their unmarried counterparts. Because they have more to lose, they fall easy prey for blackmails. So then, to keep him to yourself, you must always be in the game. Learn new ways to flirt, but at the same time let not all flirting end in sexual consummation. Let him work for it. Show him in on a bit of the show. But don’t make him see every play. That way, you keep the doors open for more episodes. Trust me, you’ll have him involved too long in the keep to let him have time aplenty to spare for desperate broads on the prowl.

 

Lady flirting with her man

4.      Make him an offer he cannot refuse. Men love adventure – especially when at the end of that adventure lie a beautiful woman, arms opened wide in loving embrace, waiting to take them to bed. Raunchy, eh? But doubt it not for one second. The beauty of the game for you, therefore, is if you become the giver of the promise and the promise itself. Santa Claus and the Christmas present all in one. To make it fascinating enough to throw him on the hunt – on a hunt for your love and affection , and whatever TLC (tender love and care) that go with it – make sure the prize is something he has never had with you before. Study his likes (and dislikes) and fantasies. Elaborate on them to come up with an ultimate prize. It could be a carefully planned picnic at an adorable spot you know he’ll love, or a romantic gateway in a heaven-on-earth atmosphere, like the Obudu cattle ranch, etc. it doesn’t have to be expensive, though. If you’re married to him, it could be a sexual fantasy you know he craves (just to prove a point it does not have to cost much). Point is, if you know him well enough, you’ll find a soft spot. Use it. Make that offer. It could be if he comes home from work earlier than usual he gets the treat or something. Just make a smart offer. And make the cost of not getting the prize much more costly. Then sit back and watch him move the world to have it.

 

Lady sharing warmth with her man

5.      Crown him King. There is truth in the saying, ‘make your man a king, and he makes you a queen.’ Every kingdom needs a king, and every king needs a queen. Don’t treat your man like a pauper and expect him to treat your like royalty. You get what you give. Rather than whine about how much he doesn’t care or support you or shower you with the Seven Wonders of the World, make him the eighth wonder of the world. Treat him like a king. Respect and honour him. Be there for him and listen to him. Validate his confidence and show him warmth. If he’s a real man, he’ll never forget who his Queen is – You. If he’s not a real man and walks away, well, be rest assured in the fact that a Palace without a pillar collapses. And trust me, no one may be able to do to him the things you do. And he may never find another Queen like you. Why you remain a Queen by virtue of your unconditional love, he becomes NOT a king by virtue of lack of it.  

 

Loving couple support each other in prayer

So you have it – 5 easy steps to make your man fall in love with you more and more. Hope you enjoyed the read.

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Have a blessed love life!